Men's Body Secrets

 

                                                       Men's Body Language Secrets   

                                 We call them secrets because so few people seem to appreciate how important they are to body language.  Each of the ten “secrets” listed below deserves a whole section but hopefully this page will provide a basic introduction.


Some body language is very specific to an individual rather than a group or society. It’s trait that people develop as a response to how they are feeling that has little resemblance to general behaviour.  For example; most people are likely to touch their lips or nose when they tell a lie.  In the case of a particular boy he would always push his right hand into his back pocket. (Perhaps to stop himself from touching his face?) Once you work out what the body movement means it can become very useful when reading that specific person’s body language.  These are often called “Personal Tells”. Almost everyone has them and in most cases we are completely ignorant of their existence as they apply to us personally.

A certain company Chief Executive would always start scratching the tip of his nose if he was irritated by what people were telling him.

A particular woman we know always starts making little sniffing noises if she doesn’t like the food she’s been served in a restaurant.

Perhaps the most unusual example was the case of girl we knew at university. Her boyfriend noticed that whenever she became sexually aroused she would start stroking her left earlobe with the thumb and forefinger of her left hand.   Apparently she once said to him: “It’s amazing how you always know when I’m feeling turned-on.”  In poker, professionals often study the other players to see if they have personal body language that can be used to “tell” whether they’re holding good or bad cards.